
I must first say, No, you crazy loon, you are not too old for true love!
I know I know I know…it feels that way right now because of your close calls not amounting to anything. But I so truly believe in the idea that each person you date is bringing you one step closer to the right partner for you. And especially if each of these are such close calls, that’s actually a great sign!
When you do meet the right person, it will be clear why this bad-timing relationship wasn’t right at the right time. Maybe it’ll be him, but he’ll be over his divorce. Or maybe it will be someone else and you’ll be thanking your lucky stars this guy wasn’t ready.
My advice: Place a love order from the world. I’d find a place outside or facing outside. Take a deep breath, put a big smile on your face for 20 seconds to cool down your emotional brain, keep breathing, and calm yourself, then think about how ready you SO truly are for a real love to enter your life. Then tell the world just that—that you are ready. Say, “Okay, world, you know what? I’m ready. I’m really really ready for my big love. So please, when you’re ready for us to meet, send him my way fast. And if we’re not ready to meet yet, just send me a sign I’m on the right path. Thank you.” Really feel it all while you do it: boldly asking for what you want, the thank you, the gratefulness. Then smile, exhale, and let the world do your bidding.
It’s your time. I think that as soon as the world really knows you’re ready for it, it can come.
—Amy




I feel the same way. Nothing ever gets off the ground or comes to fruition. I get frustrated in the process, but I do take the time to be happy and enjoy what a great life I have thus far. I just wish Id find that cherry on top…A relationship with a man that is perfect for me!
I agree with you and Astra! It can get frustrating when you THINK you’ve found someone… and then, it turns out, they’re not the one you were looking for. After reading this post, I went onto my balcony and spoke to the world. (Uhh, hopefully my neighbors don’t think I’m crazy!) I’m very ready for a relationship with the man who makes me the best version of myself!
nice